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Tuesday, 14 May 2013

Life Is Unpredictable in Addiction Recovery

May 4th, 2013 by Geoff Thompson

There is no official rulebook for life, because life is far too complicated. Most people with addictions use the tactic of controlling people, places, and things in their attempt to protect themselves. If the addict doesn’t know something, some piece of information that will allow him or her to plan or to make a decision, they often feel great anxiety. As well, a plan that gets blown up at the last minute can really upset those in early recovery.



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Monday, 13 May 2013

Your First Year in Recovery: What to Expect

in Getting SoberWhat to expend your First Year in RecoveryQuitting drugs or alcohol, either by entering a detox center or doing it on your own, is just the first step in the long journey that is recovery. The first year in recovery is the most tumultuous, and everyone’s recovery is unique. There is no exact formula that works for everyone. There are, however, many things that can be expected regarding your first year in recovery.



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Sunday, 12 May 2013

The Road to Recovery

in 12-StepLife struggles can define who a person will become later in life, and for me, one night would save my future and save my life. People have asked me why I believe that I am an alcoholic. I respond with a simple answer: Because I struggle to control how much I drink. I never would have considered myself an alcoholic. Like other alcoholics, I never thought I had a problem, and therefore I had nothing to worry about. I could keep doing what I wanted; however, the end of my destructive road came in full force, and I would learn that in order for me to live with a free body, mind, and spirit I needed sobriety.



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Emotional Sobriety: How to keep your emotions stable in recovery

In the beginning, the focus is on physical sobriety. When an addict decides to quit using, they need to put aside their emotions, and the only thing they need to worry about is not picking up. As their body adjusts to functioning without drugs or alcohol, they can slowly begin to concentrate on what’s most essential to their recovery: emotional sobriety.

What is emotional sobriety? In short, it’s being able to regulate your emotions and your mood. Emotional sobriety is being able to deal with strong feelings without resorting to addictive, compulsive, or destructive behaviors. Without emotional sobriety, it’s difficult – if not impossible – to maintain physical sobriety.

People who are physically sober but not emotionally sober are often referred to as

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Saturday, 11 May 2013

Being Young in Recovery

but addiction has a way of stunting your intellectual growth. People who are suffering from addiction in early adolescence or young adulthood have a unique advantage; if they get sober at a young age, they have a better shot at bouncing back and turning their lives around. At the same time, they’re also faced with unique challenges, such as a limited worldview and more peer pressure to

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Is Marijuana a Gateway Drug?

in Drug ProfilesThe Wacky Weed – Is It Really That Bad??There are some who view marijuana as a harmless drug. Their oft-used argument is that, because it comes from the earth, it is

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The Man in the Mirror

in Personal StoriesLife struggles can define who a person will become later in life, and for me, one night would save my future and save my life. People have asked me why I believe that I am an alcoholic. I respond with a simple answer: Because I struggle to control how much I drink. I never would have considered myself an alcoholic. Like other alcoholics, I never thought I had a problem, and therefore I had nothing to worry about. I could keep doing what I wanted; however, the end of my destructive road came in full force, and I would learn that in order for me to live with a free body, mind, and spirit I needed sobriety.



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Friday, 10 May 2013

Prostitution and Addiction

When I was seven years old my mother passed away from breast cancer. My father, younger brother and I were forced to move in with my grandmother since my dad needed help raising us. I grew up in a nice suburban area with a loving family and many friends. I went to a private Catholic high school and later was accepted into a prestigious nursing program at a local college. I worked part time for a fashion jewelry company in New York at their warehouse. Within a year I became their head buyer traveling to Guangzhou, China as well as doing some modeling for their print ads. On the outside everything was perfect, no one would have guessed that on the weekends I worked for an escort agency selling myself to pay for my intense Oxycodone addiction.

I started smoking weed and drinking at about 14 years old. During my junior year of high school one of my good friends brought up the idea to try out these little blue pills that everyone was starting to take. I had tried some other prescription pills before and they had never appealed to me very much. I agreed since they visually seemed pretty harmless (very small, light blue in color and we were each only going to take half). I became sick to my stomach even with such a small dosage. Any normal person would say to themselves,

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Can I Quit Drinking Without Alcohol Treatment?

There are numerous reasons why I quit drinking. Even though I was told I would always be an alcoholic, I successfully overcame my addiction to alcohol. Although I hate the word

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Finding Emotional Balance in Early Recovery

Feelings are rampant in early recovery. Fear is a big and powerful part of emotional imbalance. So are sorrow, anger, remorse, guilt, and general feelings of free-floating anxiety about what will come, what has gone happened during active addiction, and what is going to happen as a result of these situations.

It may seem that all of your emotions are present at once, making their presence known in different ways. It is possible that sleeplessness and tension will manifest because the calming influence of medication is eliminated in recovery. It feels like it will never end, but it usually does and it usually will. How does one get through the initial discomfort of emotional disregulation that is part and parcel of early recovery?

Learning to identify and talk about these feelings is the first step toward living with them. Historically, it was necessary to drown them in alcohol or shove them aside with drugs. It does not work, and now they have become overwhelming in their demands for attention. Talk therapy, even with an understanding and compassionate friend, is the beginning of welcoming feelings back into our experience. There is tremendous freedom in admitting that feelings are new to us and uncomfortable, even pleasurable ones. Learning to identify what is being felt can be an empowering and exciting new way of beginning as well.

Sayings in recovery settings, such as

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Thursday, 9 May 2013

When the Newness Wears Off

So, you are newly recovering from an addiction, with maybe a couple of months under your belt now. The holidays are coming to an end; and after the holiday season, the meetings that you attend are filling up with newer members, as is usually the case in 12-Step communities.

Holidays have a way of waking up the addicts to the problems surrounding their use. Either they have made complete messes of their family relationships during this period, or their using is more obvious to family and friends they haven’t seen often during the previous year. However it happens, there are a lot more people coming into recovery in December and January than any other time of year.

For those who really thrive in the attention they received in their 12-Step meetings for being the newest member, or one of them; (and you know who you are!); it can be uncomfortable and disconcerting to see so many new people coming in and getting that attention you thought was all for you. Now there will be a shift in focus for your recovery.

While you may have made some small inroads into sponsorship and recovery work itself, you will have to be completely honest with those who support your recovery about your feelings. This is hard when new, because you know you are supposed to love and support everyone in your meetings, but what is this new feeling? Could it be that ugly monster called jealousy? Is that what is happening?

Some will relapse in their attempt to regain the spotlight and attention of the group. There are some in nearly every group who do this for years and have no recovery to speak of, long term. Their plight is pitiful and heart-wrenching, but the group will soon lose the will to reach out to help these persons, believing that they are not really trying to recover. Who knows what factors are at work in relapse behaviors? Just recognize the futility and insanity of this particular way of receiving the regard of your group.

Others will become overly dramatic when sharing in their meetings, with lots of

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Exercise and Fitness in Recovery

A New Year means a new resolution, and many people will be hitting the gym as a result. However, if you are in the midst of early recovery, paying attention to your health and fitness levels can be important for other reasons as well–one of which is the physical impact on the body of the active addiction. While there are treatment centers that provide analysis of a newly recovering persons’ health and provides fitness options, many cannot afford this type of treatment and are left wondering where to begin.

This is a difficult choice for those who have not been in the best of health to begin with. However, it is an important feature to address in early recovery. Because they may have many addictions to contend with, such as nicotine addiction, sugar addiction, caffeine addiction, and others that impact their health, but are not primary to their treatment regimen, they will have to structure their recovery to accommodate these things. Many who are addicted to drugs and alcohol will remain smokers and eat or drink things that are unhealthy and detrimental to a strict workout regimen.

While they may one day address these secondary addictions, their initial plans for improving their health through exercise will be less stringent for obvious reasons. Of course they will want to monitor their health by visiting a physician and following the recommendations given after ascertaining their basic good health, a beginning may be found in simple exercise that will be as innocuous as possible in order to avoid injury and danger to their health.

Walking is a good way to begin. Improving one’s breathing capability and heart rate is optimal for nearly anyone, but especially those who have been doing little physical activity and are feeling the discomfort of early recovery. The human body will go through many side effects during the process of recovery, but the early days will sometimes be acutely uncomfortable for nearly everyone. Obviously, the first days of withdrawal from medications and alcohol will be closely monitored by the agency they are in, or in a hospital setting, or by their family doctor. Medical assistance is highly recommended for withdrawal from substance abuse. At the point where the body is free from the effects of early withdrawal and is healthy enough to participate in activity of a physical nature, walking is a good way to calm the nerves that are heavily impacted by that physical withdrawal. As they heal mentally and physically, walking will give nearly anyone a more positive outlook on their process. If walking outdoors, the sunshine and fresh air are bound to increase feelings of wellbeing and happiness.

Learning to breathe, as in a yoga setting will also enhance early recovery. Toxins have been eliminated from the body and breathing deeply to continue the cleansing process is beneficial. Stretching and easy yoga poses are also good for helping to further cleanse the liver, kidneys, lungs and other vital organs after the detoxification process is complete. Most will feel more confident and energized by a simple stretching routine as found in beginning yoga classes.

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Triggers in Early Recovery

the recovering addict into thinking that may result in relapse behavior. From one addict to the next, these things will have similarities as well as differences, depending upon the person and the addiction.

Examples of situations or items that may trigger a relapse to alcohol use/abuse would be a time of day when the recovering addict would normally have their first cocktail or a time of day when they would begin their drinking behavior if a consistent pattern had been established. Another might be seeing a commercial on television portraying a particular favorite brand of wine, beer or alcohol. Scenes of drinking behaviors in movies or portrayed on television could also trigger that response, as well as certain objects that were significant in the drinking history of someone, such as a favorite martini glass or shot glass. Other triggers for recovering addicts can be the smell of a favorite beverage or driving by a bar or liquor store that was a favorite during their drinking days. Even driving in the same neighborhood or on the same street may bring up memories that are uncomfortable and difficult to contain.

For recovering addicts who used/abused drugs, it may be just as simple to be triggered by events or by seeing certain objects that are reminders of the old ways and behaviors. In those instances, it can be a lighter that was used for smoking marijuana, or a match strike that smells of sulphur for an addict who used matches to

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Wednesday, 8 May 2013

Aromatherapy in Recovery

Our sense of smell can evoke pleasant memories or cause instant revulsion. Just as certain smells can trigger nausea in pregnant women, the smell of certain drugs can contribute to relapse for an addict in recovery. Scents can also be used to promote health and well being in recovery by helping recovering addicts balance their emotions.
One of the best things people in recovery can do to promote relaxation and reduce stress is to practice aromatherapy, which is the practice of using plant based materials to create essential oils. These are then in turn used to naturally alter a person’s mood, sense of well being, or to improve a number of different health issues. Essential oils have healing properties that, when used correctly, can reduce symptoms of depression and anxiety that addicts often experience in recovery.

Science of Smelling

The olfactory senses are part of the body’s limbic system, which is responsible for memory, emotions, and behavior. When a scent is inhaled, messages are sent to parts of the brain that are a part of the limbic system and chemicals that have direct effects on mood are released such as serotonin. The limbic system is also responsible for feeling pleasure, and the

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Keeping Recovery Fresh

Recovery can become less exciting after many years of going to 12-Step meetings, sponsoring newly recovering persons and working through personal issues. The meetings of 12-Step recovery begin to blend into a long, ongoing drama that doesn’t appeal after twenty years or more. The truth is, after long time recovery, members tend to become complacent. It begins with life becoming busier than it used to be. Families and employment, as well as their homes and bank accounts have become stable. The incentives that make early recovery desperately necessary are no longer part of daily life.

Most have returned to a stable way of living. They marry, if not already so, find education and employment that they can responsibly maintain, have cleared away the legal wreckage that may have been present early on. What is left to recover from?

A great deal is the answer. For many, there are deep-rooted issues in relationships that still require maintenance and healing. A long process has been begun, but there will be new issues for long-timers to work through. As they age, health and end-of-life issues arise. Then there are children moving out of the home and on with their lives, marriages and grandchildren. These become the rewards of a successful, happy and productive family life, something that was usually threatened by the substance abuse that is no longer occurring.

Freshness is found in the 12 Step meetings, as new members continue to appear. There is work to be done in helping others find and enjoy recovery. It doesn’t retire, nor does it stop. New members arrive daily to the meetings and treatment centers around the world. There is always service work to be done. While many feel that newer members need to perform the service work that is important in early years of recovery, there is still room for leadership by those with history in recovery.

Workshops and retreats are beneficial to renewing the spiritual wonder and gratitude that permeate early recovery. The sense of

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Dating in Early Recovery

As Valentine’s Day is upon us, we celebrate romantic relationships with cards and candy. However, relationships with a recovering addict takes a little bit more  consideration. While many people will come into their recovery experience within the parameters of a relationship, others will not. Many have divorced or separated from spouses due to their active participation in the addiction that brings them into recovery. Others will come into recovery single. Whatever stage of relationship you may be in, it will behoove you to learn the methods for dating at this time in your recovery. Even married addicts will find that they need to begin many aspects of their partnership or marriage on a new footing when they stop practicing an active addiction.

Regaining Your Emotional Balance

Emotional balance is difficult for the first several months, and begins to stabilize in time. However, the first months can be very uncertain for those who are feeling their emotions and learning to express them for the first time in many years. Active addiction robs each person the ability to participate in an emotional relationship with themselves, therefore with others as well. Addicts become so estranged from their own feelings that expression of them is impossible. Add drugs or alcohol to the mix, and there is little emotional experience for either partner. If they both drink or drug, they will both need to stabilize in their early recovery before they are available for emotional responses to their significant relationships.

Enter the single addict, who believes that they are ready for dating. Many treatment professionals will counsel that they remain outside a romantic involvement for the first year of recovery. This is a good idea, but few addicts will heed this admonition. Therefore, practicality suggests that there be guidelines set for them to follow in that vulnerable time. Although no recovering addict will admit their vulnerability, it exists just the same. Most consider themselves to be well on their way to lifelong abstinence. This is a scary time, because they are the last ones to recognize their own relapse indicators. One of the most powerful is becoming romantically entangled too soon into their recovery.

Things to Consider before Getting Back “Out There”

Since it will, most likely, take place, despite the counsel of wiser minds, here are a few pointers to follow when contemplating the romantic realm of dating:

If dating another recovering addict, be sure that you are clear on the idea of drinking and drugging. Being new to the recovery world is a drawback, because it is difficult to find activities within a safe range to participate in when abstinent. Be sure that your date does not include going to parties or bars where alcohol and/or drugs are going to be circulating. The discomfort of being with a new person and uncertain about the feelings brought up in this situation can easily lead one to drink or drug to

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Tuesday, 7 May 2013

Controlling Substance Abuse

Introduction to a recovery process can be a shock to the system and ideology of any addict, whether they are alcohol, drug addicts, or other behavior addicts; which are called process addictions, such as gambling, sex, or video game addictions. Believing that abstinence is the only method for recovery to begin is the premise underlying most successful treatment options. Whether they are in 12-step recovery or not, abstinence is the key for nearly all recovery from addictions of any kind.

Relapse is very common for those who have an initial introduction to treatment for an addiction. The numbers cited in the early days of Alcoholics Anonymous, the earliest recovery program, was at 65%. This number has not changed a great deal since the inception of the book that named their society in 1939. Little has occurred during the years since then to alter this statistic. Treatment of many types has introduced the concept of addiction to mainstream media in all parts of the world, but has not been able to offset the concept of relapse.

It is as if the addict must test his or her newfound information about addiction by participating in a return to the old behaviors and patterns to see if they truly have this problem. Many of these addicts will return to recovery to maintain abstinence and will eventually succeed in recovery from the addiction(s).

However, the process of determining that they are, in fact, addicts, can be quite interesting and enlightening. As they begin, they will attempt to do the very same things that they had tried before treatment to stop or control the addictive behavior. This may include, but is not limited to these popular themes:

To have no more than 1 drink or hit of a drug during a specified time frame,To only participate in the behavior on weekends,To drink or drug only during specific hours of the day,To eat certain foods before they drink or drug,To stop legal consequences by not driving their car when drinking/drugging,To only participate in the behavior when alone,To not participate in the behavior at all without companionship,To only drink or drug substances that they don’t enjoy as much as their favorites,To never borrow money for gambling, drinking or drugs,

There are many ways to attempt to control behaviors that are already out of control. Others have done these and many more things to control addictive behavior. This then, brings us to the natural argument of whether it is

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Overcoming Opiate Addiction

While a basic understanding of the function of narcotics and their effect on the (normal) brain of a chronic user is simplistic when determining who is likely to abuse opiate medications and why they are in a particularly high risk group for opiate addiction, the truth is, of course, much deeper than that.

Historically, opiate addicts–those who abuse and become dependent on heroin and other other forms of opium including synthetic opiates, such as methadone–have been characterized primarily by their low functionality on the social spectrum. Stimulant addicts; those abusing cocaine, methamphetamine, amphetamine and other stimulant drugs are the

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Making Amends

in step 9. This is confusing for many addicts in their early recovery. Sponsors who have worked through these steps and have maintained abstinence for many years are just as puzzled and confused about what constitutes an

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Monday, 6 May 2013

Being of Service In 12-Step Groups

Service is one of three principles in Alcoholics Anonymous. The other two are unity and recovery. While service may seem to be an obvious principle to interpret, it can cause some confusion when it is used as a manipulative way to attempt to control others. Recovering addicts may be some of the best manipulators in the world. They certainly have the skills, which are honed sharply while in active addiction. Because they may not be completely laid to rest when in early recovery, there are some who are using that skill in 12-step groups. This is not news to any members attending the groups. However, there will be things said frequently in the groups that are not in the spirit of what the founders had in mind when they stressed the importance of being of service to others as a way of enhancing and strengthening personal recovery from substance abuse.

Early in Alcoholics Anonymous, there was a completely different need for service than that seen today. There were only two original founding members. They were hard-pressed to spread the word about recovery to those who were still in the thralls of practicing alcoholic drinking. As they were able to achieve success with new members, there was some relief of the workload as those members began to spread the good news. Soon they had a small group and from there they changed the history of addiction by forming Alcoholics Anonymous. This is a brief explanation of work that was done for the love of the recovery they had found. This kind of work is no longer needed in Alcoholics Anonymous. While there are thousands of meetings in countries all over the world, there exists a huge need for service work to be done at many levels.

This work does not go away, but increases every day. Service to Alcoholics Anonymous and in other 12-step communities is rewarding, sometimes frustrating, and usually under-appreciated, but it most often leads to a stronger recovery for the person who performs it. The problem occurs when those who do not understand the nature of service tell others in the group things that are patently untrue. A frequently heard phrase is,

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Addicted to Drama

Many recovering addicts’ new addiction to drama can be difficult for their family and friends to live with. What creates this need for attention and being center stage all the time? Why is every small event magnified and processed as if it were truly life and death? Is this something that just happens with recovering addicts, or do we all have a tendency to dramatize our lives?

How does this almost need for drama impact recovering addicts and why? It is known that the chemical receptors in the pleasure center of the brain are heavily influenced with most substances of abuse. As these chemicals are pumped into the brain, addictive patterns begin to form for the addict. As they become more and more dependent upon the substance, they also form patterns of habit in their brain synapses. This combination becomes habit after some time, and then becomes addiction. Depending on the substance, it can happen quite rapidly for many who begin to use and then abuse the substance.

Those who begin with abusing one substance may believe that the particular drug is the problem and often switch to another one and another one, switching drugs to end their dependency on any. This phenomenon may also be seen in recovery settings, where addiction to alcohol becomes an addiction to sugar, an equally damaging substance that may continue to damage the blood sugar system of the abuser. The brain is producing much the same effect from the sugar as it did with the alcohol, thus allowing the reward system to mimic the chemicals produced by drinking.

Other behaviors may stimulate the production of dopamine and give the recovering addict a

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Laughter Is the Best Medicine

This is especially true in certain settings, where we see that a sense of humor may get one through uncertain and even terrifying circumstances. Remember Norman Cousins, who laughed himself well when diagnosed with terminal cancer? Today there are clinics where laughter, induced by comedic routines, joke tellers, clowns and other laughter inciting therapies are a regular part of the treatment provided. Benefits are seen by cancer survivors and many others who are suffering and need to reframe their experience to gain insight and benefits otherwise not used in conventional hospital, therapeutic, and treatment settings.

Addicts, too, can benefit from developing a sense of humor. Prone to being overly dramatic and self-important, it is seen that several popular myths in Alcoholics Anonymous are beneficial to reminding addicts to remain

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Sunday, 5 May 2013

Do You Know about Pills Anonymous?

A 12-step group that is lesser known than those frequently used as referrals for those in early recovery, Pills Anonymous is a concept that goes far back into the history of Alcoholics Anonymous and Narcotics Anonymous. While pills are generally considered to be narcotics–and many of those who suffer from the ravages of this addiction are comfortable with the recovery in NA or AA–there is a subtle distinction in the type of addiction found with prescription medications.

The early beginnings of Alcoholics Anonymous were fraught with addiction to medications. The co-founder of AA, Dr. Bob Smith, was addicted equally to alcohol and prescription medications. This is where some of AA’s early foundation was laid. There was little discrepancy for the early members between those who abused pills along with their alcohol and those who did not. Some of the early literature and stories in AA are about the two. One of the most recognized members of AA, Dr. Paul O. was very active in attempting to begin a program for those who were addicted to pills. He himself wrote, in his story, which is a foundation story in AA’s

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Meditation for Recovering Addicts, Part 1

We hear a lot about meditation and prayer in 12-step communities. Few people are comfortable with meditation and fewer still practice it in a formal manner. Some in long-term abstinence have become familiar with meditation as a means of quieting their busy mind and find meditation very helpful. What is not discussed in meetings are the many ways that meditation benefits recovery for those with addictions.

Western culture is unfamiliar with these practices and promotes the daily insanity of multitasking and multifunctioning, to the tune that our healthcare services are overwhelmed in caring for those who live too fast, are continuously stressed out, and are suffering the ills of fast-paced lifestyles with diseases such as heart ailments, digestive disorders, obesity, diabetes, panic attacks and anxiety disorders, depression, many forms of addiction, and cancers of many types. All of these diseases are just that

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Meditation for Recovering Addicts, Part 2

There is little talk in traditional 12-step recovery groups about the practice of meditation. There is little conversation in these groups about the benefits or the reasons for meditation. Today there are special groups of 12-step recovery members who are forming alternative groups with interests that include meditation practices, but they are not as widespread as the bulk of the recovery meetings. It is important that these concepts become more widely available to recovery members who are not able to access these groups.

Long-term abstinence is difficult to achieve when recovering addicts do not know what emotional process they are in. Daily, all cultures, around the world, are faced with the stresses of life. These can range from driving in traffic, difficulty in relationships at home and at work, illness (either personal or familial, or both), birth, death, marriage, divorce, the list goes on and on. Navigating these turbulent waters is a balancing act for everyone. Recovering addicts do not have all of the emotional stability that is required for dealing with these stressors without a great deal of help. While it is important for them to maintain their involvement in 12-step support groups, working with sponsors and other 12-step advisers and friends, maintaining a spiritual connection is tough when you are not aware of how you are feeling about any and all of this activity and its inherent stressors. Meditation can be the safe haven for most addicts when they walk through the fear that bars them entrance into the quietude and serenity that is found within them.

This is the seat of all of the wisdom and answers that anyone needs to access. But it is a task that is intimidating when most of us just want to

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Saturday, 4 May 2013

Detox vs. Cold Turkey

To be completely accurate, detox anywhere can be cold turkey, in other words, abruptly done. Whether or not a person pays for detox, some agencies will not provide medications unless they are clinically and medically necessary. Others will give users medication to ease their way out of their addiction.

The distinction I make here is whether or not you need to go to a hospital or clinical setting. Some people can do this at home, unless they are going to suffer seizures (as from alcohol detox from long-term, chronic drinking). Most drugs can be medically withdrawn from the body without substituting other drugs. Some people prefer a detox on medications, due to the fact that coming off pain killers, heroin, and some other drugs can be excrutiating.

Detoxing at a Facilty

The average cost of detox in a facility depends on several factors. If you have insurance, it will range according to how much your insurance company will pay. If the agency provides medical detox, this can get quite pricey, because use of Suboxone or other medications to get you

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Picking Addiction Help

“Treatment is not a prerequisite to surviving addiction.” This bold statement opens the treatment chapter in a helpful new book, “Now What? An Insider’s Guide to Addiction and Recovery,” by William Cope Moyers, a man who nonetheless needed “four intense treatment experiences over five years” before he broke free of alcohol and drugs. As the son of Judith and Bill Moyers, successful parents who watched helplessly during a 15-year pursuit of oblivion through alcohol and drugs, William Moyers said his near-fatal battle with addiction demonstrates that this “illness of the mind, body and spirit” has no respect for status or opportunity. “My parents raised me to become anything I wanted, but when it came to this chronic incurable illness, I couldn’t get on top of it by myself,” he said in an interview. He finally emerged from his drug-induced nadir when he gave up “trying to do it my way” and instead listened to professional therapists and assumed responsibility for his behavior. For the last “18 years and four months, one day at a time,” he said, he has lived drug-free. “Treatment is not the end, it’s the beginning,” he said. “My problem was not drinking or drugs. My problem was learning how to live life without drinking or drugs.” Mr. Moyers acknowledges that treatment is not a magic bullet. Even after a monthlong stay at a highly reputable treatment center like Hazelden in Center City, Minn., where Mr. Moyers is a vice president of public affairs and community relations, the probability of remaining sober and clean a year later is only about 55 percent. (Hazelden also published his book.) “Be wary of any program that claims a 100 percent success rate,” Mr. Moyers warned. “There is no such thing.” “Treatment works to make recovery possible. But recovery is also possible without treatment,” Mr. Moyers said. “There’s no one-size-fits-all approach. What I needed and what worked for me isn’t necessarily what you or your loved one require.” As with many smokers who must make multiple attempts to quit before finally overcoming an addiction to nicotine, people hooked on alcohol or drugs often must try and try again. Nor does treatment have as good a chance at succeeding if it is forced upon a person who is not ready to recover. “Treatment does work, but only if the person wants it to,” Mr. Moyers said. Routes to Success For those who need a structured program, Mr. Moyers described what to consider to maximize the chances of overcoming addiction to alcohol or drugs. Most important is to get a thorough assessment before deciding where to go for help. Do you or your loved one meet the criteria for substance dependence? Are there “co-occurring mental illnesses, traumatic or physical disabilities, socioeconomic influences, cultural issues, or family dynamics” that may be complicating the addiction and that can sabotage treatment success? While most reputable treatment centers do a full assessment before admitting someone, it is important to know if the center or clinic provides the services of professionals who can address any underlying issues revealed by the assessment. For example, if needed, is a psychiatrist or other medical doctor available who could provide therapy and prescribe medication? Is there a social worker on staff to address challenging family, occupational or other living problems? If a recovering addict goes home to the same problems that precipitated the dependence on alcohol or drugs, the chances of remaining sober or drug-free are greatly reduced. Is there a program for family members who can participate with the addict in learning the essentials of recovery and how to prepare for the return home once treatment ends? Finally, does the program offer aftercare and follow-up services? Addiction is now recognized to be a chronic illness that lurks indefinitely within an addict in recovery. As with other chronic ailments, like diabetes or hypertension, lasting control requires hard work and diligence. One slip need not result in a return to abuse, and a good program will help addicts who have completed treatment cope effectively with future challenges to their recovery. How Families Can Help “Addiction is a family illness,” Mr. Moyers wrote. Families suffer when someone they love descends into the purgatory of addiction. But contrary to the belief that families should cut off contact with addicts and allow them to reach “rock-bottom” before they can begin recovery, Mr. Moyers said that the bottom is sometimes death. “It is a dangerous, though popular, misconception that a sick addict can only quit using and start to get well when he ‘hits bottom,’ that is, reaches a point at which he is desperate enough to willingly accept help,” Mr. Moyers wrote. Rather, he urged families to remain engaged, to keep open the lines of communication and regularly remind the addict of their love and willingness to help if and when help is wanted. But, he added, families must also set firm boundaries — no money, no car, nothing that can be quickly converted into the substance of abuse. Whether or not the addict ever gets well, Mr. Moyers said, “families have to take care of themselves. They can’t let the addict walk over their lives.” Sometimes families or friends of an addict decide to do an intervention, confronting the addict with what they see happening and urging the person to seek help, often providing possible therapeutic contacts. “An intervention can be the key that interrupts the process and enables the addict to recognize the extent of their illness and the need to take responsibility for their behavior,”Mr. Moyers said. But for an intervention to work, Mr. Moyers said, “the sick person should not be belittled or demeaned.” He also cautioned families to “avoid threats.” He noted that the mind of “the desperate, fearful addict” is subsumed by drugs and alcohol that strip it of logic, empathy and understanding. It “can’t process your threat any better than it can a tearful, emotional plea.” Resource Network Mr. Moyer’s book lists nearly two dozen sources of help for addicts and their families. Among them: Alcoholics Anonymous World Services www.aa.org; Narcotics Anonymous World Services www.na.org; Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration treatment finder www.samhsa.gov/treatment/; Al-Anon Family Groups www.Al-anon.alateen.org; Nar-Anon Family Groups www.nar-anon.org; Co-Dependents Anonymous World Fellowship www.coda.org. This is the second of two articles on addiction treatment. The first can be found at “Effective Addiction Treatment.” Source : http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/02/11/picking-addiction-help/

Effective Addiction Treatment

Countless people addicted to drugs, alcohol or both have managed to get clean and stay clean with the help of organizations like Alcoholics Anonymous or the thousands of residential and outpatient clinics devoted to treating addiction. But if you have failed one or more times to achieve lasting sobriety after rehab, perhaps after spending tens of thousands of dollars, you’re not alone. And chances are, it’s not your fault. Of the 23.5 million teenagers and adults addicted to alcohol or drugs, only about 1 in 10 gets treatment, which too often fails to keep them drug-free. Many of these programs fail to use proven methods to deal with the factors that underlie addiction and set off relapse. According to recent examinations of treatment programs, most are rooted in outdated methods rather than newer approaches shown in scientific studies to be more effective in helping people achieve and maintain addiction-free lives. People typically do more research when shopping for a new car than when seeking treatment for addiction. A groundbreaking report published last year by the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse at Columbia University concluded that “the vast majority of people in need of addiction treatment do not receive anything that approximates evidence-based care.” The report added, “Only a small fraction of individuals receive interventions or treatment consistent with scientific knowledge about what works.” The Columbia report found that most addiction treatment providers are not medical professionals and are not equipped with the knowledge, skills or credentials needed to provide the full range of evidence-based services, including medication and psychosocial therapy. The authors suggested that such insufficient care could be considered “a form of medical malpractice.” The failings of many treatment programs — and the comprehensive therapies that have been scientifically validated but remain vastly underused — are described in an eye-opening new book, “Inside Rehab,” by Anne M. Fletcher, a science writer whose previous books include the highly acclaimed “Sober for Good.” “There are exceptions, but of the many thousands of treatment programs out there, most use exactly the same kind of treatment you would have received in 1950, not modern scientific approaches,” A. Thomas McLellan, co-founder of the Treatment Research Institute in Philadelphia, told Ms. Fletcher. Ms. Fletcher’s book, replete with the experiences of treated addicts, offers myriad suggestions to help patients find addiction treatments with the highest probability of success. Often, Ms. Fletcher found, low-cost, publicly funded clinics have better-qualified therapists and better outcomes than the high-end residential centers typically used by celebrities like Britney Spears and Lindsay Lohan. Indeed, their revolving-door experiences with treatment helped prompt Ms. Fletcher’s exhaustive exploration in the first place. In an interview, Ms. Fletcher said she wanted to inform consumers “about science-based practices that should form the basis of addiction treatment” and explode some of the myths surrounding it. One such myth is the belief that most addicts need to go to a rehab center. “The truth is that most people recover (1) completely on their own, (2) by attending self-help groups, and/or (3) by seeing a counselor or therapist individually,” she wrote. Contrary to the 30-day stint typical of inpatient rehab, “people with serious substance abuse disorders commonly require care for months or even years,” she wrote. “The short-term fix mentality partially explains why so many people go back to their old habits.” Dr. Mark Willenbring, a former director of treatment and recovery research at the National Institute for Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, said in an interview, “You don’t treat a chronic illness for four weeks and then send the patient to a support group. People with a chronic form of addiction need multimodal treatment that is individualized and offered continuously or intermittently for as long as they need it.” Dr. Willenbring now practices in St. Paul, where he is creating a clinic called Alltyr “to serve as a model to demonstrate what comprehensive 21st century treatment should look like.” “While some people are helped by one intensive round of treatment, the majority of addicts continue to need services,” Dr. Willenbring said. He cited the case of a 43-year-old woman “who has been in and out of rehab 42 times” because she never got the full range of medical and support services she needed. Dr. Willenbring is especially distressed about patients who are treated for opioid addiction, then relapse in part because they are not given maintenance therapy with the drug Suboxone. “We have some pretty good drugs to help people with addiction problems, but doctors don’t know how to use them,” he said. “The 12-step community doesn’t want to use relapse-prevention medication because they view it as a crutch.” Before committing to a treatment program, Ms. Fletcher urges prospective clients or their families to do their homework. The first step, she said, is to get an independent assessment of the need for treatment, as well as the kind of treatment needed, by an expert who is not affiliated with the program you are considering. Check on the credentials of the program’s personnel, who should have “at least a master’s degree,” Ms. Fletcher said. If the therapist is a physician, he or she should be certified by the American Board of Addiction Medicine. Does the facility’s approach to treatment fit with your beliefs and values? If a 12-step program like A.A. is not right for you, don’t choose it just because it’s the best known approach. Meet with the therapist who will treat you and ask what your treatment plan will be. “It should be more than movies, lectures or three-hour classes three times a week,” Ms. Fletcher said. “You should be treated by a licensed addiction counselor who will see you one-on-one. Treatment should be individualized. One size does not fit all.” Find out if you will receive therapy for any underlying condition, like depression, or a social problem that could sabotage recovery. The National Institute on Drug Abuse states in its Principles of Drug Addiction Treatment, “To be effective, treatment must address the individual’s drug abuse and any associated medical, psychological, social, vocational, and legal problems.” Look for programs using research-validated techniques, like cognitive behavioral therapy, which helps addicts recognize what prompts them to use drugs or alcohol, and learn to redirect their thoughts and reactions away from the abused substance. Other validated treatment methods include Community Reinforcement and Family Training, or Craft, an approach developed by Robert J. Meyers and described in his book, “Get Your Loved One Sober,” with co-author Brenda L. Wolfe. It helps addicts adopt a lifestyle more rewarding than one filled with drugs and alcohol. This is the first of two articles on addiction treatment. The second can be found at “Picking Addiction Help.” A version of this article appeared in print on 02/05/2013, on page D5 of the NewYork edition with the headline: Effective Addiction Treatment. Source : http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/02/04/effective-addiction-treatment/

Anonymity in Early Recovery

After a period of time in recovery, a balance can be struck in understanding when to divulge their recovery to others and how much information to give in various settings. This can be confusing for newly recovering addicts, who vacillate between yelling it from the rooftops and hiding it from everyone, lest they think less of them.

It is not unusual that they would be very excited and proud about their early recovery and abstinence and want to tell everyone they know that they have finally succeeded in overcoming their addiction. This is a very common response to early recovery for those who are experiencing it for the first time. The problem lies in the anonymity that is a vital part of the 12-step programs, which are all

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